Jason & TOri

We met in the late 90’s and soon fell madly in love. But after marriage and walking through a few years of status quo mediocre, together, we discovered a great paradox—the beauty of any marriage is found only as you engage in the battle for the relationship. We realized early on that we were either going to fight against each other in a personal war or fight alongside one another in a spiritual battle. Stop fighting face to face and start battling back to back! We went through the former to get to the latter, and only by God’s grace have discovered that marriage and family relationships are indeed very beautiful gifts! That’s why we decided to share our journey through this website. We want to give you the ammunition you need to fight the battle with us and experience the beauty as we have. So if that’s you, then mount up, join us on the ride, and get ready to go to a brand new place in your marriage!


Raw Truths For Real Growth.

A powerful UNION
is the result of
two people going thru
the flames of death
and one new MARRIAGE
emerging from the


Join us on the journey

Come Apart

“When the apostles returned, they reported to Jesus what they had done. Then he took them with him and they withdrew by themselves to a town called Bethsaida…”(Luke 9:10) After coming back from a wildly successful short-term missions trip Jesus encouraged His disciples to come apart and rest so that they could recharge their batteries. … Continued

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Oneness over Likeness

“You don’t think good of me!” I burst out into tears and felt them pour down my little face. How I remember that ancient moment so effortlessly yet have to work hard to keep my kid’s names straight, I can’t tell you! I couldn’t have been more than seven years old and I have no … Continued

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What’s Your Jericho?

The other day I was struck by two verses that have rocked my world. Read them both… Joshua 6:26 – “Then Joshua charged them at that time, saying, ‘Cursed be the man before the Lord who rises up and builds this city Jericho; he shall lay its foundation with his firstborn, and with his youngest … Continued

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The Power of Sacrifice

Many of you know the story of Joseph, how he was sold into slavery by his brothers only to end up many years later second in command in Egypt. It was at this time a famine hit the region causing Joseph’s brothers to come to Egypt for food. It just so happened their unrecognizable brother … Continued

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Pilate’s Wife

Pilate should have listened to his wife! God was speaking to Pilate but He delivered the message through his wife. God does the same today. When God wants to get to the heart of a man often times He’ll do it through the wife. Listen to her guys! God could have given Pilate the dream, … Continued

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Be Battle Ready

Matthew 25:43-47 “…..if the head of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have been on the alert and would not have allowed his house to be broken into.” If the man of the house isn’t battle ready then there’s nothing to stand in the way of … Continued

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